Arsenic7

So to preface, my girlfriend has had much more experience in bed then myself but hadn't orgasmed ever untill many months after we started having sex. She is a sexual person but doesn't know her body very well, if that makes sense.

So anyhow, for a while she would get sensetive after having an orgasm or even just an ALMOST orgasm and couldn't stand penetration any longer. The problem is this wouldn't just make her lose interest in penetration but pretty much anything sexual, so I would be left a little unfulfilled. I realise the goal of sex shouldn't always be to orgasm but hey, it took a lot of effort to give her hers, where's mine?! I don't like to seem selfish though, so it was hard for me to bring it up to her (though I did eventually tell her.)

I guess I'd kind of like to hear about peoples experience with selfishness in bed, female or male. It's mentioned briefly a lot in otherthreads but usually not in depth and usually pertaining to only one person in particular.

In my case, I believe it was/is due to a sort of sexual naivette, whereby my girlfriend didn't really even realize (different than not caring...slightly) that I might want her to put in a little extra effort.

Anyhow, eventually I found out that what my situation required was simple honesty. I just had to swallow my pride and tell her what I wanted...

So...anyone?

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