Similar situation for me...I posted the "How to fall of love with the ex' thread recently.
For the first year after being apart I had several dreams of us together doing everyday things, like taking walks or shopping etc. I loved having those dreams until I would wake up and he would be gone. Waking back into reality always hurt because you feel like you are losing him all over again in a way. Sometimes I would wake up and then close my eyes quickly, so I could go back into the dream...but that never really worked...I would dream about something else that had nothing to do with him.
I once had a very vivid dream that he came into my room and woke me up, he said may name and I looked up at him and smiled. I then really woke up and was looking in the same direction as where he was standing in my room. It was eery. I don't often hear noises or voices in my dreams, but I did hear him call out to me. As time goes by, the dreams for me became less and less. I only have them after I have been thinking about him a lot.
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