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i've never really had it happen to me, but there was a time when i knew that it was going to happen.
Basically what had happened was that we had both kinda lost interest in each other (well, i know i had lost interest, and i suspect that she felt the same)... phone calls were becoming less frequent, we werent really meeting up as much either.
anyway, fast forward a few days, and we were meant to go out for dinner and drinks, but she had a killer uni assignment to do, so she cancelled on me, and i ended up going out with mates. Lo and behold, at the second pub that we went to, there she was, with a very sexy outfit, a new hair style, and full makeup on... trying very very hard to look inconspicious.
I pretended i hadnt noticed her, and a few seconds later saw her slinking off outside. The next day, i called her, and we broke up.
Im pretty sure that she was meeting someone else there (something that she denied), and i think if i hadnt gone to that pub, i probably would have been cheated on.
So i would say watch out for any serious drop in frequency of meetings/speaking (BTW, its perfectly natural for this to occur during high stress periods, say in the exam period, or before a deadline, etc... but if it happens over an extended period of time, then you should start questioning it.)
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