if the situation is how TM875 and I understand it, I vote for cutting him off. He's been avoided making a choice for 10 years. If he wants to walk the line without making a decision, he's already made his decision.
If he really cares about you, he'll cut the strings loose.
I AM curious about this guy's relationship with this ex... it sounds like he's not in a physical relationship with her. Are they just friends, or are THEY the fuck buddies? your wording is confusing.
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him/his g/f only have 10 year of relationship with no hugging, cuddling, sharing interests..
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clarify first.