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lovelycuteme · 06-30-2004, 09:08 AM

What are your thoughts from girl point of view (vice versa situation)?

I (female) met a guy. We got attracted to each other almost instantly for the right reasons (a lot common and we talked a lot before getting together..). Then he invited me for a 'date' and we hit it off even more.

Problem - g/f of 10 years (on & off since she cheated on him). He is attached & afraid of something new (thinks that any relationship cools off in 2 months). I wasn't aware at first and then he said that they are almost like roommates, most of the time nothing to even talk about.. And suddenly he believed that i am unique and he never met anyone like me..

He was giving me 99% of the time at one point, but i couldn't settle for 99% (he couldn't just "drop" 10-year relationship). So he kind of came back 99% to her.. still can't get rid of idea of not seeing me. And now I am in situation of settling for 1%.. Life is so weird.. I am really attracted to him because we have so many interests in common (sometimes scary) and him/his g/f only have 10 year of relationship with no hugging, cuddling, sharing interests.. I am trying hard to forget him, but I got so attached during our better times.. He doesn't seem to be willing to give up me as well...

Where do you think it is going to go?

06-30-2004, 09:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
lovelycuteme Upright	*Fck buddy ediquete(sp?) - girl prospective - triangle..** What are your thoughts from girl point of view (vice versa situation)? I (female) met a guy. We got attracted to each other almost instantly for the right reasons (a lot common and we talked a lot before getting together..). Then he invited me for a 'date' and we hit it off even more. Problem - g/f of 10 years (on & off since she cheated on him). He is attached & afraid of something new (thinks that any relationship cools off in 2 months). I wasn't aware at first and then he said that they are almost like roommates, most of the time nothing to even talk about.. And suddenly he believed that i am unique and he never met anyone like me.. He was giving me 99% of the time at one point, but i couldn't settle for 99% (he couldn't just "drop" 10-year relationship). So he kind of came back 99% to her.. still can't get rid of idea of not seeing me. And now I am in situation of settling for 1%.. Life is so weird.. I am really attracted to him because we have so many interests in common (sometimes scary) and him/his g/f only have 10 year of relationship with no hugging, cuddling, sharing interests.. I am trying hard to forget him, but I got so attached during our better times.. He doesn't seem to be willing to give up me as well... Where do you think it is going to go?