I too am going through the 'what am I going to do with my life' thing that he is going through. I too am in a relationship. I have a lot of stuff on my mind, I don't know where I'm going or what's going to happen to me in the near future. It's a storm of questions and a feeling of being sort of lost and out of touch with yourself.
He probably feels that his life is a little chaotic knowing there is going to be a lot of changes ahead. When he mentioned that he thought he needed to move away without you, that might be an indicator of that need for change.
I would have a serious sit-down talk with him. Let him know your feelings about how you feel. Tell him, he has made you feel uneasy about putting everything into a relationship that might not make it past December. That isn't right for him to keep you around when he might be thinking ahead that he doesn't want to be with you. He wants his cake and ice-cream too, and you might not be getting your fair-share.
Seriously...don't just sit back and do nothing until December...talk to him NOW.
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