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I recently went through this same situation, except I'm a guy and the roles were revered. We pondered these same questions as far out as 2 years before I graduated (because I'd definitely be leaving, no doubt, 100% positive). The then girlfriend proceeded to break up with me about 3 times in those two years, over the same shit, even though we just decided to wait and see what happens.
Fast forward to graduation, and she dumps me the week after. It hurt like hell, and even though I absolutely loved every second of being with her during those last two years, I wish I could have put myself out there more and met other people. I shouldn't have wasted my time with somebody who wasn't as committed to me as I was to them, but 20/20 hindsight and all that shit. I seriously would have given up everything for her and lived in a cardboard box under an overpass, as long as I could have been with her. She obviously didn't feel that way, so here I am.
I say don't waste your time with this guy. You never know when you'll find the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, and they feel the same thing about you.
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Trinity: "What do you need?"
Neo: "Guns. Lots of guns."
-The Matrix
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