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I'm gonna bust out of my usual "plan plan plan, and if all else fails, plan" habit and suggest that you do what makes you happy NOW. You ask if you should continue to invest in this relationship when you don't know if it'll be there in 6 months. Well, who EVER knows what's going to happen in 6 months? One of you could die, or find someone else, or...um...get kidnapped by aliens! The point is, if you're staying in a relationship just because you think it's going to be around forever, that's a pretty bad reason to be there. If you truly love him and enjoy being with him now, stay with him. Why give up 6 months of happy just because some day that happiness might not be there? If security is more important to you than present happiness, and he honestly can't provide that security, then do both of you a favor and find someone who wants what you want. As for moving with him when he leaves (if he decides that's what he wants), don't do it because it's what will keep you together, do it because it's what you want.
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"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
- Anatole France
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