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The sooner you realize this, the better:
EVERY guy, to some extent, wants to be single.
There, I said it. The seacret's out. Now, you have to look at the actual feelings behind this.
You're both leaving college. You don't really know where you are going in life yet. As college students, you're poor and can barely sustain yourself, let alone a family (line from the musical Avenue Q: "I can't pay the bills yet / Because I have no skills yet"). Anyway, he obviously wants to send his life in the right direction. You do too. There is doubt here on whether or not that direction includes each other.
He's graduating. Are you? If you are, then I think the best decision is to talk to him, discuss what you both really want (don't make this a son-we-need-to-talk discussion, just a throwing around of ideas). I think that, if you are both setting out in life, you should stay together, try to work it out, but still FIND YOUR OWN PATH. Don't rely on him. Become yourself, become successful, and follow your heart.
Of course, if you're still in college - stay in school. Don't move in with him until you graduate.
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"I've made only one mistake in my life. But I made it over and over and over. That was saying 'yes' when I meant 'no'. Forgive me."
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