greeneyes

So I've been seeing this great guy for about a year and a half now and for the most part, things have been wonderful. He is absolutely a top-shelf guy whom I love very much and I know cares for me a great deal. Recently, he's been very unsure of what he wants to do in life and where he wants to go, the typical worries of anyone about to graduate college. A few weeks back, he came over and out of the blue said that he wasn't sure he wants me to move away with him after he graduates in December, even though we have basically been planning that for months. He also made several comments that he wants to be single and so on and so forth. While he said later that he didn't mean that, he truly wants to be with me and not be single, I know that this couldn't have come from nowhere... there has to be some truth to these statements. He says he doesn't know what he wants come December, we'll just have to wait and see; but I'm no longer sure I can do that. Can I invest myself in this relationship for the next six months on the chance that he'll want to be with me then? Should I take that risk?

We are both young, he twenty-two and I twenty, and while I'm not asking for the poor boy to settle down and marry me, I am asking him to try and factor me into his life in a "real" way. Is this too much to ask?