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Finding the sites on the internet seems to be very helpful. There are also a number of swinger groups on Yahoo. We belong to one of them and have joined their parties on many occaisions. We have never had a 3some with 1 boy or 1 girl. We usually end up in a larger group if there's ever an odd number. My suggestion is to find a group that doesn't allow single men in since you say you are both good looking you may find it hard to ward off the single guys UNLESS you are both OK with a single guy threesome. Get to know the group before you go to any parties. Also Check out Hedonism in Jamaica. They have some weeks dedicated to Swingers and you two would be VERY likely to find a girl who would be willing to do a threesome with you two.
If you are both willing to do a swap you may find it easier to find a girl who is interested. It's also safer as Redgirl said. There's a different level of security in knowing that no one will be left out and no one has any designs on either one of you beyond simple sexual fun.
I know only of the good groups and clubs in Wisconsin. I could find out about a recommended club in Chicago too. Since you are all the way out in California - I doubt my suggestions would be much help. Check out Yahoo groups - I don't know if there's a group in California but there are several yahoo swinger groups in Wisconsin so I would bet there is at least one from California. I wish you good luck.
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