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Wonder I'm not trying to stereotype, honestly. These are just some general issues that have come up in many if not all my relationships making them common to me. This may not be the case for everyone and I'm sorry if I made it seem that way.
The ground rules sounds like a great idea but makes things feel serious as well. On top of that when things get heated rules are rarely followed.
Okay I'll give an example if this will help. So I use to have feelings for this relatively good friend of mine I think more than 2 years ago now. We seem to have this way of dipping in and out of a tight friendshsip. Anyways this was two years ago and I was commended on being straightfoward but also thoroughly rejected, life goes on. However my present girlfriend, this good friend and I all hang out in the same crew now. Now whenever possibly my girlfriend must bring up that I used to like her and ask me if I still like her, what it was like back then and why I am not still into her. Now this is a sore spot even if it was two years ago and I am absolutely over it but I see no need to continue raising the subject. I've been with said girlfriend for over a year now, I'm in fucking love, I have gone above and beyond anything I had ever done for previous girlfriends for this girl and yet she can't seem to quit putting her goddamn nose in my past.
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