Relationship Grievances
OK, so I'm having issues with my respective girlfriend and what better way to vent then annonymously through a forum?
-Our Past: Why is it that women feel what happend in the past that they were not a part of is their personal fucking business? I thought the idea with relationships was to move foward and form new bonds and whatever but here I am having all the goddamn skeletons in my closet brought up constantly.
-Double Standards: So am I the only one dealing with having to be more tolerant? There seems to be this unspoken agreement that I hafta to take more shit than she does.
-Secrets: Okay so we are meant to be open right? That's cool but there are some things that I don't need to deal with. For some reason it is always these things that are brought up and I am hassled about. Is there no such thing as respecting privacy in a relationship?
-No one is perfect: To err is human right? Yet any misunderstanding or minute wording must be discussed thoroughly and over-analyzed instead of chalking it up to a simple mistake and moving on.
-You're not always right: A relationship does not grant someone immunity from being wrong. If you are wrong that's it, deal with it.
I don't know what I expect to gain from writing this. Maybe someone will actually write something kind or helpful. If you just want to flame look elsewhere please.
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