I think it is time to let go. She says her mind is 100% made up. The more you try to get to her through her family and friends, the more likely it is that you will irritate and alienate her further.
IMO, the best way to find a compatible partner is to go about living one's life in a productive and enjoyable way. Then you will attract someone who wants to be with you instead of someone who "needs" to be with you. There is a big difference between the two.
The best relationships are ones which enhance both partners instead of filling a void. The way you describe things, I think your former relationship was the latter. Sorry if this sounds harsh - but I've been in both places and know how destructive it is to "need" a relationship.
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