I have never done it - and don't plan too. My husband and I have been approached by other couples in the past, but the group thing doesn't interest either one of us.
We do have friends that do menage a trois - they find thirds in bars or on Craigslist.org (not sure where you life but there is an extensive personals area for many major metros).
I have seen couples have problems in their relationships once they add another party; you need to be incredibly secure in your relationship or you are taking a big risk. Sounds like you are as you are the one coming up with the idea.
Good luck!
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