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I have to take this position.
If you are unhappy now, you will be unhappy later. If the TWO of you have tried everything, if you've laid it all out on the line and there is still a mutual void then end the releationship. Gently, kindly... sure it's not going to happen like that, but try as hard as you can.
Do you know if your wife is happy w/the marrige?
Do not for the love of all things holy get caught having an affiar... it will bite you in the ass ten fold for many many many years... the ex-wife will never forget it, the kids will learn about it and never forget it... it will ALWAYS BE IN THE BACK OF THEIR HEAD..... <b>DADDY IS A CHEATER</b>..... serious.
I am married, 2 kids with my wife. I also have a son from a previous releationship. I have very very liberal time with him, every weekend and all holidays, the entire summer.... How the hell did I get that!?!?! I ended the relationship with him in mind. Me and his mother were like oil and water... nothing... I don't think we fucked for the last 6 month of our relationship. I got out, said, I'm not raising a kid around the two of us always at eachothers throats. I hated the situation i was in. Obviously she did to cause she said fine. I laid out what I would do for her, day care, money.. no lawyers. Just me and her and a written agreement.
That is that.
Don't fuck up your relationship w/ yer kids.
I've heard some great suggestions above, cool off, make your plans, and go with it. But don't flaunt your other relationship.
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