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wait a minute, let me see if i understand this right...
theres a girl, who doesn't like you, doesn't like to talk to you, and for all intents and purposes you don't exist to her...
there's you, worried about her because she's important to you, even though you know she doesn't want anything to do wiht you...
it sounds to me you have the problem, not her. she'll be fine. she'll hit 22 or 23 and partying all the time won't be all that important to her anymore. she'll grow out of it. guys and girls do this all the time. yeah, the drinking and driving is bad, but there's nothing you can do about it.
but it seems to me that you need to get some help, professional, maybe. it sounds like you have an unhealthy obsession with her. i guess coming here and asking how not to care is a first step, but if she doesn't talk to you, and yet you know all this stuff, it sounds like you're stalking her (you haven't given us any info that explains why she's important and how you know this stuff), and it seems really creepy to me.
my $.02.
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