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There are benefits to both sides of the coin. I think waiting until marriage can certainly be a good thing, but I don't necessarily think it's "wrong" not to. It's fairly easy to make a religious argument against abstinance if someone is open-minded about their religion, so I don't think religious reasons are all that valid.
As they say, different strokes for different folks - for some people, waiting can be a very good and enriching thing, and for others it may not be. The most important thing when it comes down to it is that people have sex when THEY are ready, not when only one of them is. Communication is the key.
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