Nah, you
know I'm keeping it simple.
A mate is also there for sex, after all.
In reality, I'm just deciding that I'm happy as I am. If I got a woman, she'd want me to change all kinds of stuff, betcha. I doubt even the sex would be worth it. I haven't yet found a woman with whom the sex was all that great, so I'm concentrating on the concrete issues: cleaning, money, another source of mess besides me and my cat.
On re-reading that, holy shit am I getting bitter! Think I'll work on that.