denim

So, what is important? If you have a woman who lives with you and cleans house, she costs more over time than a hired maid. OTOH, you can fuck her. Can't do that with a maid, and probably wouldn't want to anyway.

The problem with a maid is that, since they don't live there, they don't really care about the quality of their work other than the minimal care that gets them paid. I speak from experience as a guy who has hired them.

So, what's important to you, and what are you willing to do? House care where you don't have to commit more than cash, or more than that where you actually have to care about her/him (gotta leave that open for the women who want to hire a male maid too)?

Averett

I wouldn't hire a maid. I can clean up after my own damn self

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I had a maid for a while, because I am a slob, it was great. She'd come in while I was gone, put blue stuff in the toilet, clean up -- and go home.

I hear my male friends bitch about their wives/maids - I paid therese 50 bucks for cleaning-- and she went home -- she never bitched-- my friends wives, bitch that they cleaned the kitchen, made the dinner, blah blah blah, and they are not appreciated blah blah blah.

I think had the better deal.

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lurkette

I'm not sure whether to be offended or laugh my ass off

A wife/husband, to me, is someone who is there to support you in life and who is a partner in your fulfillment. It has nothing to do with cleaning or even helping out with the chores, unless that is contributing to your fulfillment. I clean our house because I like to live in a clean house, not because ratbastid wants me to. Frankly, most times he couldn't care less. If he asks me to do something specific, I do it because it's important to him. I clean D's house for her sometimes when she needs it because it supports her doing other things that fulfill her.

If a wife is just a maid you don't have to pay, you've got trouble!!!

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nowthen

I have a wife and a maid.

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denim

Nah, you know I'm keeping it simple.

A mate is also there for sex, after all.

In reality, I'm just deciding that I'm happy as I am. If I got a woman, she'd want me to change all kinds of stuff, betcha. I doubt even the sex would be worth it. I haven't yet found a woman with whom the sex was all that great, so I'm concentrating on the concrete issues: cleaning, money, another source of mess besides me and my cat.

On re-reading that, holy shit am I getting bitter! Think I'll work on that.

Nitrox

A single guy with a cat?

Nisses

if that's the only thing you have your wife for, I'd go with the maid. That way if it's fucking you want, you can bring home different people to fuck all the time

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denim

Why, is that a problem? Maybe I should shave her. Lots of people here seem to like shaved pussy, though it seems strange to me.

(edit: typo correction)

MSD

Maids make loose change disappear. So do moving guys (even more so with them.) I don't like people being in my house.

pig

You do realize, of course, that you can find services that provide hooker maids?

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denim

But do they clean well?

Nisses

they better, if they don't, their clientele might catch some disease and die...

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brianna

god i hope this thread is a joke. are you seriously wondering if you should get a wife because as a woman she'll obviously be expected to clean theh ouse and have sex with you?

denim

No. See the thread this came from. This is more of a "which is better" thread.

Yakk

View marriage as more of a "holy shit, this world is hard: how about we team up?" and less as a "I get fucked and my laundry gets done".

The classic problem with having a "I get fucked and my laundry gets done" live in would be the obsticles it places in front of finding a "holy shit, this world is hard: how about we team up?" partner.

Maids do not have this problem.

So, I'd vote Maids > "I get fucked and my laundry gets done", and learn to use your hand.

(ain't I so romantic...)

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denim

LOL!

StickODynomite

Oh wow. I dont even know what to say to this thread.

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Tuffy_McGee

I know what to say:

You CAN fuck your maid!

denim

Well, now the immediate maid problem is solved. I did it myself. Cheaper too. All that's left is the new apartment, which I'll have to get into the habit of cleaning. :9

i8one2

my subby loves being my maid or anything else I want her to be, plus the sex is great...Hense she is my perfect women.

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lurkette

Ratbastid is officially the luckiest man alive. After we had really good sex tonight, I cleaned the house wearing nothing but a rhinestone tiara

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denim

Lurkette knows how to dress!

dnd

clean up after yourself! its not your wifes job, if ur rich enough get a maid...or just save that money for a few months and u can go on holiday...

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lurkette

And how to UNdress

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