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I don't want to be the bringer of bad news, but I've had a similar situation. In fact, I would venture to say it was nearly identical.
You want her... but she doesn't want you. You can never be "just friends" from this point, as you will always want her. You said yourself that she isn't interested ... usually assumptions there are correct. Girls don't need to give you reasons, the only important part is the fact you were rejected, no matter how ambigious/nice of a way it was.
Don't keep running these "maybe she likes me" scenarios through your head, as it will only feel worse when you realize you have no chance of ever getting with her. You've made your move. She knows how you feel.
The friendship will be edgy for the remainder of time you're friends with her.... and distance will grow. It is kind of hard to do friend things if she knows you want her, and you know you want her.
Continue to be friends if you want, but the friendship is already unravelling, and you can see it.
I'm sorry. She approached you first, then got disinterested, and now she is still disinterested. If she wanted to date you, she would have scheduled a time ( no-one on earth is that busy... ) or got back with you with an alternate activity.
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