primal

I can't overstress the importance of rules. For us there were things that came up that I never imagined. After my wife's first girl on girl experience (with me watching) they wanted to do it alone. I couldn't believe it, they actually wanted me to agree to not watch the coolest thing I've ever seen. Essentially my wife wanted me to say that it was ok for her to have sexual experiences without me. I told her it would be ok as long as I could have sexual experiences without her. She wouldn't agree to that and still maintains that her having sex with a girl alone is different than me having sex with a girl alone. I feel a bit like, that by pushing for Operation Lesbian Action (OLA) I nearly made myself obselete. Also it doesn't feel very good when your wife expresses that she REALLY wants to have sex without you. So much so that she (and she is the jealous sort) actually considers letting you have sex with other women.

I don't want anyone to get the wrong impression, it was great. I think there is more to come for us. It really got us to start communicating about things that I'd never even thought about. We are defeinately closer and more connected now. It's just that if you don't have that communication then there are a million ways that it could go horribly wrong. My main advise would be prepare yourself for some long talks that may boggle your mind.

I'd also like to add that the effiel tower is fine to watch in porn (it's like the girl is on a rotisserie) but If I tried it in real life I'd feel gayer than a bag of dicks and probably would go soft. I'm sure that my wife would like it, so maybe someday I'll be secure enough to handle something like that.

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