Hey ratbastid, I love you and all (really, you're awesome
), but not everyone's answer to "I have a girlfriend, but I like this other girl" is THREESOME! It seems to have worked well for you and lurkette, but that's not always realistic advice.
My advice? It's a crush. We all get em. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you're dead. So I guess you have to figure out if you're willing to risk your relationship for a fling.
Hell, maybe you're girlfriend would be willing to try the threesome thing. You should know her well enough to be able to guage that. But you'll have to ask her, and you'll be running the risk that she'll think you're an A) freaky pervert, B) just trying to get with this girl any way you can (and she'd be right
) or C) just your typical threesome fantasy havin guy.
I ramble. Blah.