Interesting. My gf had this thing at the beginning of our relationship. She expressly didn't want to talk about sex. Wouldn't tell me what she liked, didn't want to know about me. She felt it was to early in the relationship to make that kind of demands... thought we needed to explore each other without talking about it. So I explored

However,I'm a big proponent of communicating, especially about sex, so it threw me for a while. any thoughts?