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blizzak · 06-13-2004, 10:10 PM

hmm
you say she walks all over you, but you love every minute of it so it's okay? Don't get me wrong, if you think it's ok that's fine, but I can tell you it's probably not. i've never seen any relationship like that work, whether it's been the girl or the guy doing it.

In fact, one of my friends in in a relationship with another good friend of mine, and i've spoke to her many a time. Turns out she was in a relationship for about 1 and a half years in which she walked all over the guy, before she realized that it would never work out like that. The guy was so attached to her by that point that he was threatening suicide over the phone to her (like he was gonna cut his wrists right then and there) if she broke up with him. It took a very long time for her to convince him to let go, and he still talks to her and wants to hang out with her, etc...but she really trys to keep her distance, cause i've also seen them msn and he gets really mad really fast.

Okay, maybe i'm going a little extreme here lol. But the fact is, my friend that she is with now doesn't let that happen, and the relatioship is working great, and I can't see them breaking up anytime soon. If a relationship is meant to be mutual, then don't let her walk all over you.

Now that that rant is done, with your girl, it is all in the body language. Organize a get together of some sort, and pick up on her body language, etc. Just keep it casual, it's your best bet. And remember, always look out for #1 (yourself that is). You're the most important person in your world, so if you're not happy, then there's no point.

Good Luck!

06-13-2004, 10:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
blizzak Crazy	hmm you say she walks all over you, but you love every minute of it so it's okay? Don't get me wrong, if you think it's ok that's fine, but I can tell you it's probably not. i've never seen any relationship like that work, whether it's been the girl or the guy doing it. In fact, one of my friends in in a relationship with another good friend of mine, and i've spoke to her many a time. Turns out she was in a relationship for about 1 and a half years in which she walked all over the guy, before she realized that it would never work out like that. The guy was so attached to her by that point that he was threatening suicide over the phone to her (like he was gonna cut his wrists right then and there) if she broke up with him. It took a very long time for her to convince him to let go, and he still talks to her and wants to hang out with her, etc...but she really trys to keep her distance, cause i've also seen them msn and he gets really mad really fast. Okay, maybe i'm going a little extreme here lol. But the fact is, my friend that she is with now doesn't let that happen, and the relatioship is working great, and I can't see them breaking up anytime soon. If a relationship is meant to be mutual, then don't let her walk all over you. Now that that rant is done, with your girl, it is all in the body language. Organize a get together of some sort, and pick up on her body language, etc. Just keep it casual, it's your best bet. And remember, always look out for #1 (yourself that is). You're the most important person in your world, so if you're not happy, then there's no point. Good Luck! __________________ Fueled by oxytocin!