There's nothing you can do to get inside his head and not scare him. But what you can do is let him know that you are there, like others have said, and to ask him to let you know if something is uncomfortable with him, even if it seems perfectly harmless to you. Keeping and earning more trust is the key.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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