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liquidlight, not that it is any of my business -- but STOP lending them money! They make their own beds, let them lie in it.
You are doing the right thing to only say nice or nutural things about them in front of the children; but they are not yours to rescue. Your children deserve to see the whole picture -- which includes (evidentally) "mommy in trouble." You not rescuing their mother, will not hurt the children and it may help in the long run if she learns to stand on her own two feet. Just my opionion -- take it or leave it.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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