I had the baby urge... I had it BAD... wait. Trust me. Wait until you know who you are. Until you know what you want in life. Me? I want to be a wife and a mother... maybe some day that will happen for me... but after a nasty divorce and all the shit I've gone through in the last year, I know that I don't want a child until I know for positive that I'll be able to give him/her the best home possible. That and I don't know who I am yet.. I'm almost there, I think, but remember that babies aren't just cute toys you can put away when you're done... unless they're someone else's