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Thank you for your time and effort maleficent, it means a great deal to me. I can see that apparently I was well on my way down the wrong road in dealing with this (perhaps I've already gone too far).
Maintaining contact with her is difficult; she's either never home or refuses to answer, and since I know for a certainty where she is (going so far as to having a quick look around his building and their local favorite hangout), I am close to . . . confronting, both him and her. I'm finding it very difficult to stand by and watch this happen, watch her sink deeper into depression in a terrible relationship, hoping by some miracle she figures things out on her own, or that she at least realizes that she needs help and stops isolating herself; it'd be far quicker and easier to attack the problem directly.
But, seeing as how I've never encountered this sort of situation before and thus have no experience in properly dealing with it, I'll do my best to abide by the guidelines you've given me.
Thank you again.
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"But I don't want to go among mad people," Alice remarked.
"Oh, you can't help that," said the Cat. "We're all mad here.
I'm mad, you're mad."
"How do you know I'm mad?" said Alice.
"You must be," said the Cat, "or you wouldn't have come here."
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