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I think maleficient's got this one sewed up, especially if you're admittedly a big guy, shaved bald, who walks around in an intimidating manner. I've seen this before, and I used to be in the similar position. I didn't understand why the ladies seemed skittish around me, until a close female friend of mine told me how intimidating I could be - I don't know if you're a smartass, but that was one of my big defense mechanisms. I've also found that, even if it's superficial, it also helps to get in shape. If you feel that you're pudgy and ugly, and on top of it chicks get the feeling that it's going to be either 1. scary as hell to shoot the breeze with you, or 2. that you take things very seriously, it's going to cut down a lot on how often they mindlessly flirt with you. On the other hand, if you carry the confidence of feeling that you're as physically attractive as you can be, and you seem open and friendly, they'll flock. You might find your face unattractive, but as WarWagon said, you'd be surprised. I've seen stone cold ugly as bat shit guys pull off some poontang capers.
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