Dale, not to sound annoying or anything, but I expect your camera does have a manual. It's there for a reason, and probably has a very simple, yet extensive section on this issue.
Personal experience: install the software that was supplied with your camera, attach the camera to the computer (using the supplied cables). Typically, the software will then either do the transfer automatically, or they'll provide a wizard to help you along.
The uploading to a website question is a bit more tricky. You need a website, or at least space on a webserver. This is typically provided by your internet provider. They'll probably be able to help you with the upload. Just expect to be dumbfounded by terms like "FTP", "IP adress", "port number", "username and password".
