View Single Post
Old 05-24-2004, 11:53 AM   #1 (permalink)
claustin8605
Banned
 
1 year jitters in a relationship :-/ (PLEASE READ! I NEED HELP!)

Ok, this is my problem. My boyfriend and I are approaching the one year mark in our relationship. This is the longest relationship I have ever had. He is really serious about me and I feel the same about him. But for some reason I am nervous about the idea of "one year" together. He has only had one previous relationship before me which lasted a little over two years and I have dated guys on and off but nothing serious. He is the first one I have felt so deeply about like I do right now. I have never dated a guy and thought I could see myself marrying him and spending the rest of my life with him, but I feel this way about him. For him though in his previous relationship I asked and he admitted that he felt the same way about his ex-girlfriend as he does about me now. I mean he has told me he could see himself spending the rest of his life with me and he mentioned the idea of engagement in the future. But I don't understand how he could go from feeling this way about her to feeling like this about me. I mean if he has felt like this before and his ex wasn't "the one" then how does he know I am? What should I do? I mean I am really nervous and in way apprehensive about our whole relationship.

Last edited by claustin8605; 05-24-2004 at 04:59 PM..
claustin8605 is offline  
 

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73