Personally I love sex for sex's sake. It can be scary for a woman going into a totally exposed situation with a man without knowing that he's not a freak in some way. It's not so scary when I'm doing this WITH my husband and knowing I have my husband at home for the loving, romantic relationship that my the emotional part of me wants.
The woman can often be a little weaker than a man. Unless we have taken self defense classes we can often be overpowered by a man. Thus I think I and maybe other women tend to be more leary of who they have sex with even though they may want it without conditions.
I realize this may not be all of it but its a part of my reason for not going with just any guy any time unless I'm with my husband.
I guess it's a matter of "Can I Trust You?" and "How do I know I can?"
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