05-23-2004, 08:53 AM
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Originally posted by sexymama
As I've said before, love is a verb not just a feeling. It is a choice to be there, be supportive, be together, build a life, etc. No matter what, it will have its ups and downs. Obviously you have found some pleasuer in being with your SO, or you wouldn't have hung in there 7 years. You can choose to build on what you have and make this love last forever, Melbourne. But in the next, and the next, be aware that at some point the butterflies go away and love becomes a choice. (Viking1064, ditto to you.) When you make that choice and you take action, the real fun can begin -- be creative, have fun, and work it. It is worth it when you are with the "one."
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I agree with everything sexymama said espically that you have already moved on. Love does last forever. I cant' wait to grow old with my husband. I can just imagine us sitting on the front porch swing holding hands. After 6 years of marriage and 9 years of being together I fall more in love with him every day. I can't imagine my life without him. And the day I wake up and I don't have those feelings I know that it is time to move on. I think people today jump into marriage. Very few people take it seriously it's something that is supposed to last forever. |
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