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Originally posted by lurkette
On the book "Satisfaction," I am afraid to buy something like that for her. What if I had it arrive to her anonymously, so she could look at it by herself without feeling embarrassed?
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I can't say how you should do that. But I personally feel that it would be a gift to her and your relationship to purchase it and present it to her ALONG with an open discussion of the issues you described above. THis book was meant for couples to use together. There isn't anything in there that should embarass her, in my opinion, as it is intimate things between yourself and her. But I don't know her personally so I can't speak for you.
If I had something like that arrive anonymously, I would wonder where it came from and THAT would be weird. Besides, what if she received it and read, explored what she could for herself, didn't mention it to you and you both end up frustrated and gain nothing? I dunno, I just feel if you are going to get the book, give it to her as a gift from her sweetheart. *shrugs*