slugo, good points.
but the best part you mention is to keep your eyes open.
I was VER bitter when I broke up with who I thought "the one" was. I didn't date for many years after that. It closed my eyes and heart to seeing what was around me, that even when I did finally meet a nice girl, I went through all the motions until I realized that's exactly what was going on. Until one day out of the blue...
here's an excerpt from another post of mine:
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my wife and i hung out as friends.. she never dated at all.
she lamented to me that she thought that it would be easier to just have a sign that said, "I like you. Can we date?"
we hung out for sometime, and one day her best friend was in town and I was telling her how I didn't really know any nice girls that I wanted to date and she kept turning my head to make me look at skogafoss. and that's when it hit me. she was right there in front of me all this time.
the next time we went out I told her I was holding a sign. she got it immediately, and we started our "official" dating period. I don't even remember how long ago that was, but we've been friends since 1996. We didn't start hanging out until 1998.
communication is important. keep up the work and keep the practice.
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