MOST IMPORTANTLY: Know you're ready. There is no rush. Listen to your (and her) feelings.
-Don't set expectations.
-If you do: Take it slow. It can be painful or at least uncomfortable for her at first.
Use protection: Even if she is on the pill or you use a condom, to ensure no risk of pregnancy, have a secondary method- i.e. sponge, diaphram, foam, etc. It's always good to double-up.
But remember there is no rush, be sure you are ready and committed- that you will have no regrets later.
EDITED: Ooh! FOreplay. Masturbation. That will help *rev* things up and loosen tension.
Last edited by :::OshnSoul:::; 05-21-2004 at 04:49 PM..
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