Ratbastid and I are in the same position, and at least for me I've decided not to commit to surgical permanence, as you put it. We're still young enough that we could change our minds (though the fertility clock is winding down, thank god) and I don't now, it just seems so...permanent. Granted, vasectomies are more reversible than tubal ligations, but there's no guarantee that it could be reversed. That, and I kind of like being on the pill all the time and not having a period, so there's no real reason to do anything about it till I decide I don't want to be on the pill any more, most likely for medical reasons, which increase with age.
If there's one thing I've learned in the past decade, it's that things that opinions change. This is not one that's likely to change for us, but there's still just enough doubt in my mind to not want to commit to a decision.
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