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Originally posted by jayman2004
have you tried a condom? if so double bag it...you may not feel much and thats the idea but she will feel it believe me...
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Please don't. Increasing friction between two layers of latex is a bad idea, unless you like being called Daddy.
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Originally posted by Huang_Gai
It's like Happy Gilmore, where he has to find a "Happy Place." Well, a good trick most guys use is finding a "Not Sexy Place." It's a subject, person, scene, whatever that will take your mind off whats going on downstairs. This is the emergency maneuver. Usually baseball... LOL
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Yeah, that's the old joke: "think about baseball". But I've got a better one for you. Think about the Bangladeshi telephone system. Imagine telephones on the walls of huts connected to regional, manually operated switchboards, each connecting to one of a hundred or so central offices with its OWN manually-operated switchboard. It's enough to keep anybody's mind off their wang.
Oh, and please DON'T try tricks like desensitizing condoms without letting her know about it. Any change in how it usually goes, at this point, will be hard for everyone to handle.
I've found, after eight years of marriage, that emotional and communicational issues show up
first in our sex life. If sex isn't going great, I've come to learn, there's something else going on that needs talking about.
So go TALK to her about this. Start with the sex and then just go whever the conversation goes.