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First off, I have to echo Averett's comment, very nice wording.
Anyway, as opposed to having her masturbate in front of you (which is not how she masturbates), have her physically touch herself while you are having sex. My wife (whom I encouraged) now diddles the doohickey while we make love, and she has some of the most mind-blowing orgasms I've ever seen. And this is from a person who used to not orgasm from sex.
I personally think some of it is mental, because now she knows she is going to have an orgasm, as opposed to worrying about it like before.
my 2 cents....
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