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DJ Happy · 05-19-2004, 06:59 AM

And I use the word DOESN'T rather than CAN'T because on the odd occasion she has (very rarely though - we've been together about 2 years and she's cum maybe three times).

Allow me to paint the picture with a few more vivid brushstrokes.......

My wife has an immense sexual appetite. She tells me that she can remember masturbating on the bus coming home from school at the age of 11 and has been unbelievably horny ever since. She simply can't get enough sex (which is great) but very, VERY rarely orgasms during it (which is not). She can easily orgasm while masturbating though. Now, before you suggest that I ask her to masturbate in front of me and tell me what she likes, when she masturbates she doesn't touch herself in any way whatsoever. She closes her legs, thinks happy thoughts and wriggles slightly, and hey presto, Bob's your uncle. I don't really know how I could replicate that myself.

Having said that, my wife doesn't seem to be particularly bothered by her inability to orgasm. She still loves sex and quickly becomes wetter than an otter's pocket when we fool around. And while I certainly don't rate myself as the second coming of Casanova's mentor, I know my way around a woman's body. Without going into unnecessary and gratuitous details, previous girlfriends have always enjoyed what I have to offer.

So what do I do? As I said, she has orgasmed during sex in the past, so I know she can. But how can I make it more frequent for her? There's very little that we don't do (we've not done anal yet, although negotiations are currently underway), so is there something that I'm missing?

Do any of the ladies out there have any suggestions?

05-19-2004, 06:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
DJ Happy Psycho	My wife doesn't orgasm during sex. Any tips? And I use the word DOESN'T rather than CAN'T because on the odd occasion she has (very rarely though - we've been together about 2 years and she's cum maybe three times). Allow me to paint the picture with a few more vivid brushstrokes....... My wife has an immense sexual appetite. She tells me that she can remember masturbating on the bus coming home from school at the age of 11 and has been unbelievably horny ever since. She simply can't get enough sex (which is great) but very, VERY rarely orgasms during it (which is not). She can easily orgasm while masturbating though. Now, before you suggest that I ask her to masturbate in front of me and tell me what she likes, when she masturbates she doesn't touch herself in any way whatsoever. She closes her legs, thinks happy thoughts and wriggles slightly, and hey presto, Bob's your uncle. I don't really know how I could replicate that myself. Having said that, my wife doesn't seem to be particularly bothered by her inability to orgasm. She still loves sex and quickly becomes wetter than an otter's pocket when we fool around. And while I certainly don't rate myself as the second coming of Casanova's mentor, I know my way around a woman's body. Without going into unnecessary and gratuitous details, previous girlfriends have always enjoyed what I have to offer. So what do I do? As I said, she has orgasmed during sex in the past, so I know she can. But how can I make it more frequent for her? There's very little that we don't do (we've not done anal yet, although negotiations are currently underway), so is there something that I'm missing? Do any of the ladies out there have any suggestions?