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maleficent · 05-17-2004, 10:40 AM

You are a young guy, not immature or anything negative going with being young. But you have 50 + years ahead of you. Is this what you want for the next 50 years, for the next 10, or even 6 months.

She sounds like the stereotypical woman, that I hear my friends griping about.
Man: What's wrong, honey.
Woman: You should know.
Man: No, honey I don't know otherwise I wouldn't be asking.
Woman: IF you loved me, you'd know
Inability to communicate is a killer of any relationship.

She's probably a lovely person, however, relationships are a two way street. (Leaving sex out of it) What does she bring to the relationship. Can you count on her being there for you during bad times. What does she bring to the relationship, if it's just neediness, and clinginess, you deserve better than that.

Is she fixable? Probably. Are you the one to do it? If you want a project instead of a girlfriend.

Her emotional issues are, quite franky, not your problem. That's baggage, and it needs to be checked at the door when a new relationship starts.

05-17-2004, 10:40 AM	#22 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	You are a young guy, not immature or anything negative going with being young. But you have 50 + years ahead of you. Is this what you want for the next 50 years, for the next 10, or even 6 months. She sounds like the stereotypical woman, that I hear my friends griping about. Man: What's wrong, honey. Woman: You should know. Man: No, honey I don't know otherwise I wouldn't be asking. Woman: IF you loved me, you'd know Inability to communicate is a killer of any relationship. She's probably a lovely person, however, relationships are a two way street. (Leaving sex out of it) What does she bring to the relationship. Can you count on her being there for you during bad times. What does she bring to the relationship, if it's just neediness, and clinginess, you deserve better than that. Is she fixable? Probably. Are you the one to do it? If you want a project instead of a girlfriend. Her emotional issues are, quite franky, not your problem. That's baggage, and it needs to be checked at the door when a new relationship starts. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.