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Originally posted by Dorito2
Her:
i think i want a therapist
Me:
how come?
Her:
just so i can talk to someone about everything that goes thru my head
......
Her:
i might just kinda think about things on my own
Me:
why not do something? you can talk to me, like i said before  Or I can help you find someone
Her:
im not ok talking to someone i dont know
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Her:
id rather not dump things on u
Me:
you really don't want me to help you find someone?
Her:
its coz im wishing u or my mum will offer it to b u to listen
Her:
makes me feel bad when u suggest i should talk to someone
Me:
ah ok, just that you said you wanted a therapist, so i thought i'd help
Her:
i meant u
Her:
thats the thing, i dont want to tell u or anyone
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You have infinitely more patience than I do. At that point I'd be saying "JUST SAY WHAT YOU MEAN OR SHUT THE FUCK UP AND STOP WASTING MY TIME."
Nothing gets under my skin more than people who can't make a simple statement without turning around and blatantly contradicting themselves. And it's even worse when they act like it's your fault for assuming there's some kind of correlation between what they say and what they mean.
"I want a therapist" means "I want a therapist." It does NOT mean "I don't want a therapist, I don't want to talk to you. Then again I do want to talk to you, but not if you say I should talk to a therapist like I just suggested. Oh nevermind, I don't want to talk to you about it anyway." That's just stupid.