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There will definitely be a staff councelor at her university. Probably a team of them. If she's willing, she can get help.
Here's the thing: you should stop treating her like a problem. She's a human being. She's got issues. She is not her issues. She's a person who has issues. What's going on here is that you're trying to have a relationship with the issues, which is frustrating and doesn't work. Try having a relationship with the person, instead.
The flip-side of that is that she thinks that she is her issues.
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