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Old 05-15-2004, 08:27 AM   #10 (permalink)
sexymama
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You and your son will have a much better time of it if you stay positive.

That said, also listen to your gut. If a providor doesn't feel right, then she/he probably isn't "right." However, make sure that you are evaluating fairly, not on jealousy. It is better to keep a child, (imho) in the same daycare year after year, then it is to move him/her around.

I personally prefer at home, smaller, family like daycares. I left all three of my biological children in daycare. They are all well adjusted, independent, and good children with great values. But I shopped around and found someone who had similar values to me and who, I could tell, would love my children -- not just watch them.
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