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Originally posted by hossified
geez....I just don't know if I am prepared for that conversation!!??
maybe I should just surpress these feelings I'm having and go on with the status-quo......(has worked other times)!
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if you don't feel ready to talk about this with your girlfriend, then don't... i promise if you bring something like this up prematurely, you'll only make things awkward with your girlfriend and it will get even more confusing. and if you just surpress your feelings, aren't you always going to wonder "what if?" later on?
however, as averett has said in so many words... you still need to show your girlfriend and this new girl all the
respect they deserve. at the very least, your girlfriend should at least know this other girl exists and if/when you hang out with her again. and maybe you should have a talk with your girlfriend about where you two stand right now and where you're going.
as for your potential feelings for this girl, it seems you have some more thinking to do before you bring that into the picture with your girlfriend... and if it takes going to a movie or to get coffee, then by all means do it... last time i checked neither of those things were against the law. but you need to fill this other girl in on your situation and let her know what you're going through. heck, she might have some of the best advice of all.