seems to me she's looking for someone else to take responsibility for her life, and at the same time not wanting to give that responsibility away.
let her be, after a while, and she still bemoans the issue, it's time to say, either shit or get off the pot.
my thought of the day is:
Attitude is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people think, say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a business...a home...a friendship...an organization. The remarkable thing is, you have a choice every day of what your attitude will be. We cannot change our past...we cannot change the actions of others. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can change is our attitude. Life is 10% of what happens to us and 90% of how we react to it.
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