maleficent

She: Maybe I should wear the dress instead of those pants.
You: If you want to
She: You dont like this dress?
You: I like the dress fine
She: You hate this dress, you think it makes me look fat.

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Sometimes, with some folks, you can't win no matter what you do.

The young woman has got some issues, but they are not your issues. Your happiness is important as is your well being. You can't fix people who don't want to be fixed.

It's not female nature, not for all females anyhow.

She sounds like she might have some trust issues, and is constantly testing you -- to see how much she can get away with. What's her past relationship history?

Being the source of some elses self confidence and being their entire world is scary. I'd run away... FAST. No good could ever come of that.

You've mentioned that you aren't sure if she's the ONE, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. That kinda says that she's not -- You'd know. You seem to have a life. You seem to be her life. There's a saying older than me -- you can't have a life with someone else, until you've had a life by yourself.

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