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READ and ask questions, thats how I started. I didn't have a clue about that domination/submission stuff...Boy what reading, writing, asking intelligent questions has given me is a completely new lease on life and responsibilities. I went from evaluating what was missing in my life to listening, I mean really listening to what others had to say. And when I found the person, actually 2 very fine people I could have an adult and open conversation with, I began to get it!
What you ms is telling you has nothing to do with being a prick, bossing you around in the conventional sense, but she is letting you know she would love to bond with you in a complete and udder new sense of the term BOND. There is a feeling deep within her that was to release herself to you. This can be bedroom time or much much more. That I can't tell you, but its that BOND she wants/needs. Now that a great area to have a conversation about. There are just some great and wonderful places on the net to at least get more info on if you which.
Once you have that BONDING thing discussion and you're still contemplating going the route you mentioned, feel free to drop a line and I can certainly get you headed in the right direction.
Good luck, and the first thing to a great and strong relationships is strong and completely honest discussion of needs.
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LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC"
"Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad"
Quality is for those who know
what they want and are at peace with what they have.
"S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker
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