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Typically, I think there are reasons that people love each other.
What is your reason to love her? Why would she love you?
Tell her why you love her, and ask her what it is that has made you stand out over other people.
In my relationship, both of us are vocal about our love... but we also make sure to show it, to let each other know exactly what it is about each other that we appreciate, and make sure to always keep things real.
If you want love to be real, you need to keep it real. It is like that Massive Attack song "Love is a verb/love is a doing word". If love is only about the concept of love itself, then it can be very hollow and tenuous... just waiting for the bubble to be burst because you don't have those tangible ties.
You definitely need to talk.
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